https://www.lrb.co.uk/…/mary…/the-public-voice-of-women
Why are there now scores of single mothers, mothers who end up having to fight with their Sperm Donors to, at the very least, pay child support; underage mothers, child marriages, men who don’t take care of their responsibilities thus who don’t hold themselves accountable as true fathers, women who after-all find themselves seeking for and turning to abortions? Yes, it takes two to mingle however the point to be made here is that if, again, men are supposedly such protectors, knights in shining armors as they say but, have manipulated women in believing they’re who they’re not, then why are they, have they, allowed themselves to impregnate when they were not fully ready and prepared to take on true fatherhood, heartedly? They should’ve and would’ve been better off as Monks yet, then again, that furthermore would’ve taken enormous mental, psychological, and biological strength to do which not any of them in these instances had, one bit.
Religiously for years I put into practice the exercises of Monks until I knew and felt to be fully prepared to be a father so, I’m not a hypocrite. That being said in relation to those who didn’t or who believed it wasn’t needed for them to make such sacrifices, doesn’t mean they were in fact ready and prepared to be fathers—not a Sperm donor.
There are many couples who are not happy in their marriages and/or relationships; they’ve only fallen into a mere trend uncontrollable for some to delay and put off, thus have settled for who they were so convinced to be worthwhile, attractive and interesting however for a moment in time, that’s to say much less than they deserved. Fake and corny men who are not genuine, cannot raise boys to be men. They use and exploit other women as means to their ends under the illusions of protecting, safeguarding, watching over and looking out for other women—because they’ve realized there’s nothing else they can do to make justifications for their actions. Therefore they intentionally and deliberately put down, belittle, and disrespect, beyond belief and unimaginable, other women. Two wrongs don’t make a right and they’re only digging themselves deeper, and deeper into mistakable failing and frailing holes that at the end of days, won’t be able to get out in time. It’ll be too late for them to finally, decidedly choose, to be fathers concretely…they’ll have to answer for themselves as to why they didn’t promptly care for these precious and privileged gifts upon them bestowed.